Showing posts with label Splitsing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Splitsing. Show all posts

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Magic beach

I have been sorting through piles and piles of books which my son has decided to outgrow. It is very naughty of him to continue growing and maturing, and I am moved to tears as I remember all of the fun I had reading those books. Yes, I do stress "I had" because I developed a habit of falling in love with my kids' books and keeping them on my own night-table. I think I may even have loved those books more than my kids did. It also didn't help that, at the time, my mother (who loves kids' books even more than I do) was living in an apartment in London DIRECTLY ABOVE a children's bookshop. We received almost weekly packages during those years, and my father claims that my mother single-handedly helped the bookshop owner renovate and expand his business. Mum also boosted the British postal service profits, but that's another story.


I have always secretly believed that, if you live long enough and look closely enough and love the books enough, you will eventually find the locations and characters from your favourite children's books. "Where The Wild Things Are" was simple, it was set in my house during the year my son was two and a half. I discovered Pippi Longstocking in Maria's blog only a few months ago. The four March girls from "Little Women" SEEMED, upon a first superficial reading, to have grown up in a small New England town in the 19th century, but they in fact travelled much more widely...all the way into the 21st century (currently living quite happily in the general vicinity of Atlanta, Georgia and a small village in Germany).

Today I made another fabulous literary discovery - Magic Beach is alive and well and entertaining adults and children alike, a mere hour's drive from my home.


Alison Lester does not name the children who come to life in her glorious illustrations and rhymes, but I discovered their names today. The children are Oscar, Felix, Jasper and Grover. Oscar is the one with the huge plastic sunglasses collecting shells, Felix is the one sitting beside his mother and explaining to her why he may not necessarily like his new school, or then again, he might, or maybe not. Jasper is easy to spot because he is the one lying on his back in the water fully dressed, grinning wildly and giggling. Grover is the baby who is cheekily pretending to hide behind a clump of grass in a sand-dune, knowing that his mother really sees him but also secretly thrilled that perhaps not, but then probably yes, but then perhaps not.


There's a lot of exhausting activity, squabbles, laughter, tears, sand, salty water, sunhats blowing off in the wind, and heat rash. But eventually they all get together and start building a sandcastle for their mum. The sandcastle they build is a huge circular affair with three levels, two tunnels, a water-filled moat, shell decorations and leaf flags. Then Oscar says "Stop everything, I need to write a letter up there," and he climbs up to the very highest sandcastle tower and writes the letter K in the damp sand. All four boys then clap and jump for joy, and say they're hungry and thirsty and hot, and so they all walk home, slowly, through the hot sand, carefully crossing the road and following each other in a line as they walk down the front path to the door of their beachside home.


The thing is, though, Magic Beach was MUCH more magical than I had anticipated, for I didn't only see Alison Lester's characters walking along the sand. I also saw Mary from Frances Hodgson Burnett's "The Secret Garden", and Little Bear's adoring mother who surprises him with a beautiful cake, after watching him so very patiently and lovingly as he prepares his vegetable birthday soup.


I wonder what K, Mary and Mother Bear saw when we walked along Magic Beach together this afternoon? Whatever it was, I hope it was a story with a happy ending.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Splitsing

Yeserday I met Duyvken and Kim, in real life. We met at Duyvken's house, and here they are with their youngests - JW and Grover, keeping calm and carrying on.


I arrived first and immediately went into Aunty Eleanor mode. I can only go into that mode now that my own kids are teenagers, and it involves sitting on the floor and playing cars, playing mini-basketball, admiring new shoes, giving the baby her bottle and loving every single minute of it. Duyvken's eldest was in school, but I got to play with Master J, Miss C and Baby JW, and I can honestly say that they are fabulous and delicious kidlets of the very yummiest and most adorable kind.

Then Kim arrived with two more delectable morsels of baby goodness. My cup runneth over!! Jasper and Grover were wearing the cutest little button-up shirts with collars, and it reminded me of my own son at around the age of two who used to call those shirts "handsome shirts" and would run away when he saw one yelling "Not the handsome shirt! Not the handsome shirt!" But Kim's two young ones (older two were in school) were proudly wearing their handsome shirts and it was all I could do not to eat them up right there and then.


Duyvken set up an awesome cheese platter and Kim brought home-made iced biscuits in animal shapes for the kids and chocolate gingerbread cake HEAVEN with lemon icing PARADISE on top (Nigella's recipe apparently). Here is a picture of Grover showing how Aunty Eleanor ate everything on her plate (she had seconds too) as Kim talks to JW.





Here I am in Aunty Eleanor mode:

Here I am kissing Kim. I know....I don't know what came over me....I was overcome with the allconsuming fun of meeting two more bloggers in real life....and Duyvken said "Let me take a picture," and I said "Let me hold JW," and Kim said nothing and just smiled and smiled so I kissed her.




But this is what really happened:




Colours blue
And green
And brown,
Four plus four plus two.
This is the
Colour-by-number
Day
Which I have spent with you.

Arithmetically
The four and four
Is really more than eight,
Relationships and
Earthbound souls and
Followers of fate.
The two is different to the four,
But four are sure to grow,
And bring to life
Their mothers' dreams
In eyes of green,
Blue,
Glow.

A ball for rolling,
Steps for falling,
Plastic toys and running.
Beds for sleeping,
Sofas dreaming,
Pink, blue biscuits,
Smiling.
Ruby lips
And fingers quick,
And crying,
Hugging,
Laughing.
With thankyous,
Loveyous,
New shoes,
No shoes,
Scissors,
Danger,
Watching.

I watch and listen,
Wonder dreaming,
Nothing's done in vain.
Sweetly changing,
Cunning trick
Of long-gone
Birthing pain.
For there is a higher order
To this madness women know,
And I believe in that great power
Which all children come to show.
Before
I often doubted it,
And cried it out in bed,
And said to one
About our two
"It must be in my head."
But I now know,
And I have seen,
And I have felt the warmth,
And women two
With children
Four plus four
Look sharp and new.

The new is that I stand aside
And see a different light,
And feel the softness of a skin
Survivor of life's fight.
The skin that's more than mass and look,
that's more than numbers too,
Beyond all measure
And dimension,
Knowing not
The scales
Of war,
It's four and four and two and one and many
Many
More.